Social Media Networking | Social Media Networking advantage and disadvantages | Social Media Networking Curse or boon

Social Media Networking 

Now days, the usage of social networking sites has increased so much that every age group and every person has Android mobile and everyone is connected to any number of social media sites.

While this social media networking played a very important role in connecting the lost people in the initial phase, this social media is separating our loved ones in today's era.

You must not understand that I am against social media networking or do not like it, otherwise I myself thankful as because of this I was able to reconnect with my school friends after 12 years.

Actually it is not our social media networking’s fault, infect we have to set our own priorities, we have to decide at what age and when we should give freedom to our children to use it and we must also decide when and how much time have to spend on it.

Social Media Networking advantage and disadvantages

Because it is we, who become an example for our next generation, as they see us doing the same and they also follow us and then we also cannot stop them for the things that we ourselves have been doing in front of them.

In earlier times, friends used to have only two identities, first they are my friends from school / college and secondly they are friends of my office, now these days, the identity of friends has also changed. We do not even know that we are talking about what their real identity is; we know them as our Instagram friend, face book friend, whats App friend, Tik Tok friend, etc.

Those friends whom we call our friends on these social media networking sites can neither be our companions of our happiness nor share our sorrows; some people give their own to impress these unknown people who call themselves our friends.

This excessive use of social media networking generates a sense of inferiority among young children. Their desire to write/post more and get more likes and comments and hurt their feelings for not getting likes and compliments many times leads them to death, from not getting the desired popularity in social media networking to children committing suicide. 

It is also often seen that in order to free themselves from the responsibility of children, some mothers hand over the mobile to the small kids so that the children divert to it and there is no disruption in gossiping them with their friends or in their shopping.

Social Media Networking Curse or boon

The purpose of writing this article of mine is that I want to recognize my concern to all of you that whatever facilities have been invented to improve our life, the unnecessary use of those facilities makes our life filled with unnecessary stress. We use them unnecessarily to stay connected, and we get attached to them, but we lose ourselves somewhere.

Through our social media networking in order to our tireless effort to stay connected with the people who are far away, we get far away from them those are surrounding us even with our loved ones.

My humble request to all of you human beings is to use / enjoy these facilities as much as they follow your instructions, do not let yourself become a slave to these facilities. After all life is yours, and the decision will also be yours, make decisions wisely and make your life happy.